Why who you surround yourself with determines how far you go
Business leaders today face no shortage of challenges. Economic uncertainty, workforce shortages, changing employee expectations, rapid technological advances, and increasing competition can make leadership feel more demanding than ever.
Yet research suggests that the biggest leadership obstacles are not primarily about markets, technology, or strategy.
They are about people.
The Center for Creative Leadership analyzed data from more than 48,000 leaders across organizations worldwide and identified the most common leadership challenges at different organizational levels. What stood out to us was that regardless of leadership role, the challenges were overwhelmingly related to human relationships, communication, trust, self-awareness, influence, and managing people effectively.
In other words, leadership success depends less on what we know and more on how we work with people.
This finding aligns closely with what we have observed throughout our careers in leadership, psychology, higher education, consulting, and executive coaching. While technical expertise may help us earn a leadership position, it’s our ability to connect, influence, develop, and inspire others that ultimately determines our effectiveness as leaders.
The challenges change, but the theme remains the same
According to the Center for Creative Leadership, frontline managers most commonly struggle with frustrations related to people and time management. They are often promoted because of their strong individual performance but quickly discover that leadership requires a different set of skills. Success is no longer based on what they accomplish personally, but on what they can accomplish through others.
Mid-level leaders frequently identify personal limitations as a major challenge. Self-doubt, confidence, influencing others, managing competing priorities, and navigating organizational complexity often emerge as barriers to effectiveness.
Senior leaders commonly struggle with credibility gaps, meaning earning and maintaining the trust of others. Trust becomes increasingly important as leaders are expected to influence larger groups, drive change, and align people around organizational goals.
For executives, one of the most significant challenges is interpersonal rigidity. In simple terms, this means adapting their leadership style and interactions to meet the needs of different people and situations. The higher leaders rise within organizations, the more their success depends on relationships rather than technical expertise.
What’s remarkable about these findings is that the challenges themselves differ, but the underlying theme remains consistent.
Leadership is fundamentally a people business.
Why leadership development matters more than ever
One of the most common mistakes organizations make during periods of financial uncertainty is reducing or eliminating leadership development initiatives. Training budgets are often among the first expenses placed under scrutiny when organizations face economic pressures.
At first glance, this decision may appear practical.
However, it may also be one of the most expensive decisions an organization can make.
The Center for Creative Leadership has noted that organizations often continue investing in equipment, technology, infrastructure, and operational improvements while reducing investments in leadership development. Yet leaders are the very people responsible for helping organizations navigate uncertainty, maintain engagement, manage change, and achieve strategic objectives.
We have seen this dynamic firsthand.
Many organizations promote high-performing employees into leadership positions because they excelled in their previous roles. A successful salesperson becomes a sales manager. An outstanding teacher becomes an administrator. A highly skilled attorney becomes a partner. An exceptional employee becomes a supervisor.
The assumption is often that success in one role will automatically translate into success as a leader.
However, leadership requires a different skill set.
Leading people involves communication, emotional intelligence, conflict management, trust-building, coaching, accountability, and the ability to inspire others toward a common goal. These skills rarely develop automatically through promotion alone.
This is why leadership development is not a luxury. It’s a strategic investment in organizational effectiveness, employee engagement, succession planning, and long-term success.
Organizations that intentionally cultivate leadership skills create stronger leadership pipelines, prepare future leaders, and position themselves to respond more effectively to change and uncertainty.
A lesson we learned years later
Throughout our careers, we have worked with organizations that deeply valued leadership development and others that viewed it as optional.
One experience in particular has stayed with us.
Several years ago, we facilitated a leadership development initiative within an organization. The program focused on strengthening leadership practices, communication skills, team effectiveness, and employee engagement. While the program was well received, organizational priorities eventually shifted, and leadership decided to discontinue further development efforts.
At the time, many employees seemed supportive of the decision. The training felt comprehensive, resources were limited, and attention moved to other priorities.
Then something unexpected happened.
Nearly two years later, while attending a professional association event, several employees from that organization approached us. During our conversations, they reflected on the leadership development experience and shared something we have never forgotten.
They admitted that while they had originally supported ending the program, they now recognized how valuable the training had been. As they assumed greater responsibilities and encountered increasingly complex workplace challenges, they began to appreciate the importance of the skills they had learned and shared a desire to strengthen what was learned, as well as discuss current leadership challenges and identify viable strategies for addressing them.
- They spoke about communication.
- They spoke about conflict management & resolution.
- They spoke about teamwork.
- They spoke about employee engagement.
Most importantly, they spoke about how those lessons continued influencing their effectiveness years later.
Several expressed gratitude that their organization had invested in leadership development and shared that they now better understood its impact on workplace culture, productivity, and organizational success.
Perhaps the most telling outcome was this: the organization eventually invited us back to expand upon the work that had originally begun.
Experiences like this reinforce what research consistently demonstrates. Leadership development is not simply about acquiring information. It’s about changing behaviors, strengthening relationships, improving decision-making, and creating healthier, more productive workplace cultures.
Often, the true value of leadership development becomes visible only after people have had the opportunity to apply what they learned, as well acquire the realization that workplace conditions evolve, requiring different people management and human relations strategies and skills.
Seven evidence-based strategies to strengthen leadership effectiveness
The encouraging news is that leadership effectiveness can be developed. Research from both the Center for Creative Leadership and Gallup consistently points to several practices that help leaders strengthen their impact.
1. Build Deep Self-Awareness.
Gallup research shows that for six of the seven core leadership expectations, managers rate their leaders at least 20 percentage points below how leaders rate themselves, a significant blind spot. True self-awareness means examining your default relational patterns, understanding how your stress responses affect others, and regularly inviting honest feedback.
Practice: At the end of each week, reflect on one interaction where you led well, and one where you fell short. What does the difference tell you?
2. Lead the Relationship, Not Just the Task.
Gallup is unambiguous: employees who feel their supervisor genuinely cares about them are more productive, more likely to stay, and better at serving customers. Relationship-centered leadership is not soft; it’s strategic. It’s built through consistent, intentional moments of genuine human connection.
Practice: In your next one-on-one, start with a sincere question about how the person is doing and listen fully before turning to business.
3. Communicate With Clarity and Relational Presence.
When employees strongly agree their leaders communicate effectively, they are 73% less likely to feel burned out. Effective communication isn't just about transmitting information. Rather, it’s about conveying respect, inspiring confidence, and offering the hope that Gallup identifies as the single most important need followers have.
Practice: Before a key conversation, ask yourself: "What do I want this person to feel, but not just know?" Design your message with that outcome in mind.
4. Invest Consistently in Others' Development.
Organizations that invest strategically in employee development are twice as likely to retain their people and report greater profitability. Yet most leaders invest in development reactively, when performance slips or turnover strikes. The leaders who build high-performing cultures do so proactively through coaching conversations, stretch assignments, and a genuine commitment to helping people grow.
Practice: Identify someone whose potential isn't yet fully realized. Have one conversation this week focused entirely on their aspirations, not their gaps.
5. Cultivate Adaptive Relational Flexibility.
Interpersonal rigidity at the executive level often develops as a shadow of strength. The confidence and decisiveness that drove success can become a liability when the situation calls for a lighter touch or a different style entirely. Effective leadership isn't about adopting one style. It's about knowing your strengths and expanding your repertoire for human connection.
Practice: When friction arises with a colleague or team member, pause and ask: "What do they need from me right now and am I willing to offer it?
6. Build trust through consistency.
Gallup's research consistently shows that trust is one of the most important needs people have of leaders. Trust is built when actions align with words, commitments are honored, and leaders demonstrate reliability over time. Trust is not earned through grand gestures. It’s earned through consistent behavior.
Practice: At the start of each week, identify one commitment, however small, that you will make to a team member and keep it without exception. Over time, notice how these accumulated moments of follow-through shift the quality of trust in your relationships.
7. Focus on strengths while supporting growth.
Positive psychology research consistently demonstrates that people perform better when their strengths are recognized and utilized. Effective leaders identify what people naturally do well and create opportunities for those strengths to contribute to organizational success. At the same time, they provide support and development in areas that require growth. Let’s not forget that people thrive when they feel valued for what they bring to the table.
Practice: In your next team interaction or one-on-one, resist the pull toward what needs fixing. Start by naming one specific strength you have observed in that person and connect it explicitly to a contribution they've made: "I've noticed how you consistently bring calm to high-pressure moments: that steadied the whole team last week." Then, and only then, explore where growth is needed. Leading with what's strong before addressing what's developing isn't just good psychology. It's good leadership.
At Love Your Work and Life, we believe these findings reinforce something we have long taught: leadership isn’t merely a business skill. It’s a life skill.
And when leaders combine evidence-based leadership practices with positive psychology skills such as self-awareness, empathy, resilience, strengths development, and relationship-building, they become more effective not only at work but also in their families, communities, and personal lives.
As you navigate this rest of the year, consider that the organizations that continue developing leaders during times of uncertainty are often the ones best positioned to emerge stronger when challenges subside.
Because at the end of the day, leadership is not about managing tasks.
It is about bringing out the best in people, including ourselves.
Sources: Center for Creative Leadership (CCL), "The Biggest Challenges Facing Today's Leaders at Every Level" (2020); CCL, "Learning & Development Budgets" (2026); Gallup, "Effective Leadership: What Makes a Good Leader" (2025); Gallup, "What Do People Need Most From Leaders?" (2025).



